Conflict happens. Repair matters more than avoiding it.
Step away if emotions run high. A short break makes it easier to come back kindly.
Say, “I was short earlier — sorry about that.” Owning your side builds safety for the other person to soften too.
Suggest a reset: “Can we start fresh?” or “I’d like us to move forward.” Tiny resets protect long-term trust.
It’s not about never clashing — it’s about how gently you repair afterwards.